When I started writing and discovered the world of literature, I realized that while I had some work to do, I could make a living doing this. So, I turned to everyone I could—friends, family, onlookers and read them what I could. Anytime I wanted to read my work; however, no one was interested, and I started breaking down. I kept my writing to myself and stopped sharing.
Over the years, I learned that you had to share your writing no matter what. It doesn’t matter that they may not want to listen (though that should be a cue that you may need to work on your writing if EVERYONE doesn’t want to pay attention), but there will always be critics who won’t enjoy your stuff.
It’s okay that they don’t enjoy it! I’ve discovered an essential part of being a writer is that you need to keep that confidence in yourself. If you want to be a great writer, having the ability to believe in yourself will be the greatest weapon you could weld.
As I’ve reached young adulthood, some people asked me to see my writing. Their faith in me caused me to grow, and I’m learning to become less bashful when reading my stuff. It’s a work in progress, but overall, I understand that the power for growth in this industry is the belief in myself.
What does your writing mean to you? How can you flourish and blossom into someone who loves their writing and celebrates the good in it?
Well, are you willing to accept (constructive) criticism? There will be people out there who want to help any way they can. While yes, you should ignore the haters, please take constructive criticism to guide you to better work and not as an insult.
Do you have the means to share your writing? There are plenty of readings and open mics to share your work and make it visible. I’ve listed a few below that are currently doing virtual (free) readouts due to the pandemic.
Nuyorican Poets Cafe based in NY
Open Mic NYC based in NY
Phoenix Books (JAN 28TH) based in AZ
STING’s Hive LLC (Open Mic Sunday’s) based in OR
STING’s Hive LLC (Coffee W/ Creative’s) based in OR
THE MUGG based in NC
Do you want to share more about what your writing means to you? Let me know in the comments below! 🙂
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